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Befriend The Unknown
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| Text by Suma Varughese and Painting by Gopikrishna | |||||||||||||
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Published: Volume 15, Issue 3, March, 2007
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The only thing constant in life is change. The secret of staying young and enthusiastic, therefore, is to challenge your comfort zone and reinvent yourself every single day, opines Suma Varughese
If you want to keep pace with a changing world, it is imperative to keep your mind open. If not, you might find yourself blown away by the winds of change, rendered utterly irrelevant. Even the best of us have difficulty keeping our minds open. Our human tendency is to opt for the tried and tested - to prefer the comforting dal roti for the uncertain pleasure of chicken kiev. We prefer to revolve within our known though limited grooves even when life is calling to us to learn a new language, settle down in a different town, change our job, try another bus route, make new friends and so on. Explore the unknown The unknown is the realm of all possibilities, of magic and creativity. Artists know this well and strive to stay alive to the moment, rejecting the temptation to surrender to what they already know. This is the only way to ensure that they and their art continue to evolve. If you study the work of all good artists - writers, painters, musicians, you will find their creations maturing and growing as they develop their own understanding of existence. Whether it is Tolstoy, Charles Dickens, or Beethoven, their later work is their best, as life tests them and in doing so yields its best secrets. If we want to lead a successful life, one that is constantly expanding and deepening, we must open up our minds. It is all too tempting to form an opinion of existence early and then stick with it. It may be that life is difficult, or people are incorrigible or that the world is corrupt. It could be that there is a God or there is no God. Our world view creates the world we live in and that is why we need at all times to question our beliefs and see if we could possibly be wrong. From my own experience I can testify that truth itself has an evolving nature. What you were once convinced was the truth, may turn out, when your mind has expanded a little more, to be a half truth, and needs to be modified. Recognise your true self So give it a shot. Make it a habit to check within and ask yourself, 'could I be wrong?' You'll be surprised how many doors will open, how many friendships you will win back, how many arguments you will resolve and how much peace of mind you will earn. So is there nothing sacrosanct? Nothing that you can simply lock into? Well, there are the absolute values - these are the values of the soul and they never ever change. What are these? Honesty is one and so is integrity. Self-respect is another, and so are the biggies - love, compassion, selflessness and so on. The nutcase who said, 'Greed is good', in the film, Wall Street, didn't know what he was talking about. Greed can never be good (if we define it as excessive attachment or lust), any more than hate or envy is. These only breed misery and we must transcend them as soon as ever we can.
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